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Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Great bosses tell it how it is – good news or bad, a great boss is straight with employees. A good working relationship between boss and employee requires trust and communication, and this is a two-way street. Bosses expect bad news to be shared by their employees, so it should work the other way around too. It takes discipline and courage for a manager to share bad news with employees, just as it does the other way around.
sharing praise is something great bosses do, and they never take credit for the productivity of others. However, great bosses take the heat for their employees failings, often facing criticism themselves.差不多全中，都說不合格。懶理，錢在我袋。口在你那裡，喜歡怎樣就怎樣。
they don’t pick away at their weaknesses! Everybody has strengths and weaknesses (read more about this in the free eBook ‘The 10 Habits of Highly Effective Professionals‘ – get yours by subscribing to my newsletter!) Great managers know that by nurturing employees strengths is the most positive approach to performance management and professional development. And when the strengths of a whole team are invested in, the resulting productivity is always far superior than if they were to try to paper of the cracks of weakness.都要畫上句號了，還批評。沒有耐性，快快找個位置離開。
They don’t give you information: Part of the job of a boss is to disseminate information to their staff. While you don’t need to necessarily know every single thing that your boss knows, you certainly need to learn about relevant items and to be kept in the loop to ensure you know what’s going on and can do your job. A bad boss is one who deliberately keeps information to themselves either because they don’t trust their staff or because they want to take advantage of the information in a way that only benefits them.
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
If you're like most people, you notice what goes wrong more often than what goes right. Human beings seem hardwired to notice how reality fails to meet some idea of how they think things should be. How many times a day do you sink into disappointment, frustration, or sadness because others haven't met your expectations? If you limit your attention to how life lets you down, you blind yourself to the myriad gifts you receive all the time.Source: Daily Insight, Yoga Journal
Monday, June 27, 2011
It is the reason why. However somehow there is no info. for me to prepare. Info. is meant direction. If I can have a little bit of info., situation is totally different. I can work on limited info. but if there is no direction, it is hard to do so.
Actually direction is not something that I cannot foresee. But the question is, do I need to work in such environment?
Friend asked me whether the issue has been resoved. I told her, not really and may not be. Since this is not a problem and there is no answer. Things can unfold in many forms. Just like weather, we can foresee but we don't know it 100% and sometimes the forecast is not correct.
What to do?
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譬如工畫師，分布諸彩色。虛妄取 異相，大種無差別。大種中無色，色中無大種。亦不離大種，而有色可得。心中無彩畫，彩畫中無心。然不離於心，有彩畫可得。彼心恆不住，無量難思議。示現一 切色，各各不相知。譬如工畫師，不能知自心。而由心故畫，諸法性如是。心如工畫師，能畫諸世間。五蘊悉叢生，無法而不造。如心佛亦爾，如佛眾生然。應知佛 與心，體性皆無盡。若人知心行，普造諸世間。是人則見佛，了佛真實性。心不住於身，身亦不住心。而能作佛事，自在未曾有。若人欲了知，三世一切佛。應觀法 界性，一切唯心造。
Monday, June 20, 2011
I have a feeling I go to prison in this morning. Very fast, I know it is the prisoning that I imposed by myself. Nothing and no one is tighting me up. Then back to office, I read an email. Totally down. I really don't know how to do (but I know what I need to do). Or the question is, how to do in a way that make myself happy.
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What you said about me being attached is true. The last few days where I have limited access to internet and to other forms of entertainment. A lot of time to reflect back as well. I have been working for the last 10 years and have met all sorts of people. I would say meeting you is the highlight for the last ten years. No doubt, you have been critical about me. What you have said are truth. You have always been an important part of me and shall remain so.幾時先會好好去學習什麼是reflection。別人是別人，跟你沒有關係。當然，會相見相知，不過不是你的一部分。先學會什麼是關心吧！
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Saturday, June 11, 2011
The phenomenon is called overgeneral memory, a tendency to recall past events in a broad, vague manner. “It’s an unsung vulnerability factor for unhelpful reactions when things go wrong in life,”
“If you’re unhappy and you want to be happy, it’s helpful to have memories that you can navigate through to come up with specific solutions,” Dr. Williams said. “It’s like a safety net.”
focus on moment-to-moment experiences and to accept their negative thoughts rather than trying to avoid them.
Meditation means that for some, the past is no longer such a heavy burden.
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“We live with a conditioned mind. How do we think that our mind is going to give us our answer on how to be free? It comes through the practice and it comes through the experience... It’s in the body that we experience and verify the Buddha’s teaching.”
Saturday, June 4, 2011
This morning I read an article about the most common regrets on life. One of it was "I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings." Deep down was there any feelings that you have wish you have expressed?朋友寫來這個。如果有需要，起碼多寫就能了。很多的東西，都需要學習。
想的，就是多在yoga 和 Zen 上練習。得到幾多，都是禮物。
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Friday, June 3, 2011
Normally I can do thing right at the moment. However in these few days, just repeating to find out things which were not in proper order. Don't like this.
I know why I have more spare time than others.
p.s. still got more than 1 hour....very tired. Don't want to work but if not work and cannot sleep, work better.
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